- Hugs
- Chocolate
- Chocolate with peanut butter
- Peanut butter
- Coffee
- Tea
- Lasagna
- Pizza
- I really like food
- Cats purring
- Also when cats do that headbutt thing into your hand because they want you to pet them
- When the scent of the detergent lingers on recently-cleaned bedding and you can still smell it a few days later
- Petrichor
- Especially the sort of hugs when you don’t let go after just a couple seconds, but hold on longer and really hold the person (also, because SCIENCE) (but really, touch is my love language, and growing up I was all over my friends all the time, but as I’ve gotten older I’ve had a hard time forming those same sort of connections and I can tell it’s messed with me)
- Lilies
- Random acts of kindness
- MYSTERY acts of kindness, which are anonymous and wonderful
- Books
- Daisies
- Watching people write by hand
- Getting whiffs of people’s perfume, or cologne, or shampoo
- Good hair days
- Watching and listening to someone talk about something they’re passionate and excited about
- Watching people open presents
- Vanilla
- Cuddling
- When people play with my hair
- Playing with other people’s hair
- Ice cream
- Flirting (although I am probably bad at it, but odds are that I’m probably flirting with you in my own way)
- Stories that make me feel things
- Thunder storms
- Happy endings
- Getting letters in the mail
- Pretending I despise puns (10% of me is okay with them) (mostly it’s that I know they’re terrible jokes but I actually find them amusing, and even more funny when people try to annoy me with them because I’m not as irritated as I act) (shhhh)
- When something I’ve done actually makes a difference
- Learning new things
- Seeing people reach their goals
- When people hold the door open for each other
- Soft things (blankets, sweaters, jackets) (if you’ve ever been shopping with me, you might’ve lost me for a bit because I stopped to touch all the soft blankets)
- Comfortable silences
- Bursting into song
- Finding an awesome bra
- Flattering dresses
- Checking out someone else when they’re wearing flattering jeans
- Also when they do that thing where they’re wearing a long-sleeved button-up over a T-shirt and roll the sleeves up to their elbows, unf
- When people are sweet to children
- When people are sweet in general
- Cats grooming each other, or other animals
- Pajamas
- Over-sized hoodies
- Cute animals
- Collaborative story-telling
- Smashing the patriarchy
Please share your list of happy things, too!